OH EM GEE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

The new battle in feminism is defending your right to stay home and be a housewife.  Seriously.  I swear if one more person congratulates me for getting  a job or tells me how proud they are of me, I am going to fucking punch someone in the face.  Well its not the congratulating part that bothers me.  Its the way they say it.  The tone in their voice, as though I am finally doing something with myself,.  You would think that I had been living in my parents basement getting drunk and high for the last six years.  The fact that I was cooking, cleaning, taking care of dogs, cats and a child had while keeping my man happy apparently took less effort than scratching my ass.   Its nothing, nothing at all.  Why the fuck do I need to be congratulated for leaving my house and working for someone else?  Its something some 70% of the planet does.  Its not that special.  I'm not downplaying how hard everyone else works or even how hard I work.  Its just that the fact that I started working should not be treated as some kind of special event. As though, I had some kind of mental disability that prevented me from doing things and someone finally took pity on me and decided to hire me.  Chill the fuck out people!  Its not that big a deal and if I decided to quit my job and go back to being a stay at home mom again, it would totally be ok.  There is nothing wrong with that. I shouldn't have to defend that option.  ahhhhhhhhhhh

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I've been meaning to post for a while but I just can't seem to find the time.  lol  We had the official grand opening event for my job yesterday.  Which meant I had to go in extra to work like practically everyday over the past two weeks.  I am so glad it is over.  I never realized how much I like being home.  I do.   I love it.  I used to always want to go out and do something.  Now I just crave to have some time to just sit in my house and do nothing.  Which never happens.  I've been having so much coffee lately I can't sleep.  So I have been having a beer practically every night to try and get me sleepy.  Which I pretty much gulp down in ten seconds.  I have to cut down on the coffee habit before the beer drinking becomes a habit. 

Things have changed a little bit.  I no longer talking to one of the women I posted about in the post before.  She was pretty much the biggest shit talker of one of the two friends.   Because all that tension built up.  I actually ended up talking to lets call her friend #2.  Well a lot came out in that conversation.  It turns out that friend #1 was feeding us both the same lines and was shit talking about us the exact same things.  We just had never really gotten down to talk about it.  Well because I am trying to cut people off.  So the one time I don't stop it.  I find out a lot of stuff.  So friend #1 is not a friend anymore because when she noticed that we had both changed and started cutting her off her crap she got all defensive and started acting like she was the one who had something to be offended about.  I really hate two faced manipulative people.

Husband got his motorcycle license but then his bike crapped out on him.  So now we have to put more money into it to get it running.  Although apparently he is a natural as was told to me by two other people who ride.  I guess that makes me feel a little better. 

I don't know what else to write about.  My brain is fried.  I am unbelievably tired. We had a bbq today and husbands grandmother came.  Which meant I had to be up really early this morning and try and make my house look decent for her.  I still don't know how I did it.